Well we didnt go for the councelling. we were both freaked out.......

so we going to attempt an IUI before going the big guns and the IVF route. I figured out that a lot of my anger and insecurities was about transferrance. i kept blaming hubby, thinking he was dragging his feet, but in reality i was terrified of going through IVF with no success. So we are going to work our way through the system and do it slower but in a better mindset...

in the meantime lots of intimacy and bonding :D

So next cycle we start the scanning again and are on the road of the next chapter. Pray i dont wing out again .......